00:00:00CRANE: For official purposes, today is December 1st, 2015. My name is
Janice Crane, and I am part of the interviewing team for the Jewish Kentucky
Oral History Project, funded by the Jewish Heritage Fund for Excellence. I'm
honored to be here today with Judy Saxe. Thank you for doing this, Judy. Uh,
what was your name at birth?
SAXE: My name at birth was uh, actually Beverly Judith Shapiro. And my parents
very quickly changed it to Judy.
CRANE: That's interesting. When and where were you born?
SAXE: I was born September 19th, 1935, Madison, Wisconsin.
CRANE: And are your parents alive?
SAXE: No, my parents passed away uh, quite a number of years ago now.
CRANE: And what were your parents' names? And their occupations?
SAXE: My -- oh. My mother was uh, Leila Sinaiko, that's spelled S-I-N-A-I-K-O,
00:01:00um, and she, uh, was a phys ed teacher. She went to -- graduated from the
University of Wisconsin. My dad, uh, who was born in Palestine, in Jerusalem,
uh, came as a young teenager to this country. Uh, ended up with both a
rabbinical degree and a law degree. And um, wound up finally uh, working as a
rabbi, but had done a number of other things as well. His name was David Shapiro.
CRANE: Did your parents and/or grandparents names change when they came to America?
SAXE: I don't think so. I think um, I remember my paternal grandparents, my
grandfather was Nahum, my grandmother was Nahama, and I don't think they ever
00:02:00changed it. My grandmother actually never really learned English. Their --
their common language was really Yiddish. And um, my maternal grandparents um,
my grandmother's name was Rachel. So, it might have -- they might have used the
Yiddish version at some point, but it was Rachel. My grandfather was Alex. And
there was a kind of a Russianized form of it that uh, that evidently, they
called him. But by the time I knew him, he was Alex, and that was how he was
listed in -- in the obituary and all of that sort of thing.
CRANE: And where were your grandparents from?
SAXE: My paternal grandparents, um, actually both were born in Jerusalem.
CRANE: Oh.
SAXE: My grandmother was from an -- a very old, old family, many generations in
Palestine, part of the Jewish community. And -- before it became Israel. And
00:03:00my grandfather's parents migrated to Palestine in around 1850. My grandfather
was born, along with multiple siblings, born in Jerusalem. My maternal
grandparents, my grandfather -- well they came from a small town in Belarus, and
-- called -- they called it Kapulya, but on the Russian maps, it's --
Belarussian maps, it's Kapul. And my grandmother originally came from Poland,
and I do not remember how she met my grandfather, but they lived -- they were
married and lived in Kapul, and uh, had, um, all but I think -- I think they had
seven of their eight surviving children all in Belarus before they came to this
00:04:00country, and I believe one of my uncles, the youngest, was born here in the
United States. But they came to Madison when they -- when they came, because my
grandfather's uh, other members of my grandfather's family had already come to
-- to Madison.
CRANE: Do you have siblings, Judy?
SAXE: I have a brother.
CRANE: And what is his name, and where is he in the lineage? Is he older, younger?
SAXE: Oh, he's about uh, three and a half years younger than I am. And he was
born in Green Bay, Wisconsin. My dad had a congregation there at the time he
was born. Um, and um, he uh, he lives in Jerusalem. He went back to uh, Israel
in 1959, actually as a student, and basically he never left. He -- he did a lot
of traveling, he lived in Rome and worked in Rome for a number of years at one
00:05:00point, but he uh, basically lived in Israel the whole time.
CRANE: And what is your husband's name?
SAXE: My husband's name is Stanley. Stanley Richard Saxe. Um --
CRANE: And do you have um, children? And what are their ages and do you have
grandchildren? And what are their ages?
SAXE: Yeah. All -- all of the above. (laughter) I -- we have three children.
The oldest is Harriet, who all of our children were born here in Lexington. Uh,
the oldest is Harriet, who was born September 13th, 1963, and uh, the next one
was Natalie, born November 17th, 1965. Uh, and Neil was born December 10th,
1967. Um, they all live in the state of Washington now. And uh, Harriet is the
mother of our two younger granddaughters, Zoe, who's almost 16, and Olivia who's
00:06:0013 and a half. And Natalie is not married, Neil has our oldest granddaughter,
Hila, that's spelled H-I-L-A, uh, it's a Hebrew name which means uh, "halo" or
"aura." And um, she was born in Jerusalem at Hadassah Hospital in August of
19-- no. Yeah, 1997.
CRANE: Great family. Uh, your father was a rabbi, how would you describe your
parents? Both your mother and your father's relationship to Judaism?
SAXE: Oh. Well um, you know, obviously with my dad being the rabbi, it was a
very strong connection. It was -- he was a -- it was an interesting -- he was
an interesting person in -- in terms of his Jewish identity. And uh, as was my
00:07:00grandfather, my grandfather uh, pretty naturally, as one would expect, was
Orthodox. He was a rabbi. And he uh, he was Orthodox, but he was really very
modern in his outlook. He was very interested in psychology, he um, you know,
on the one hand, while he was Orthodox in his personal observance, he was not --
uh, he was not overly um, oppressive in terms of how he related to me, who was
clearly not Orthodox. And um, my dad, uh, actually got his rabbinical
ordination, semikhah, from my grandfather's yeshiva, which he had established in
uh, New York City. And uh, he -- so he was Orthodox in upbringing, and Orthodox
in his training, but he really was Conservative, just out of personal
00:08:00conviction. Um, in terms of his approach to Judaism. And he was -- he was very
vibrant. He had a wonderful personality, and he related really well to people.
So as a rabbi, he was very popular. And um, it made it easy for people, he was
very flexible with people about um, what they did and they didn't do. So it
made it very easy for people to relate to him. And confide in him. Um, and he
always, you know, one of the things I -- and he was a very, really an ardent
Zionist. So, there were two sort of major streams in our home. One was
obviously a commitment to -- to Jewish living, and he used to say that uh, you
00:09:00know, you have to look at the positives of being -- to enjoy being Jewish. It
was not a burden. And the other thing was that he had a -- a terrific
commitment to the survival of the Jewish people, and -- and to the establishment
of the state of Israel, as did my grandparents on both sides, really. But my
paternal grandparents, um, my grandfather left Palestine at the time of the
First World War, and my grandmother came with the children, uh, they ended up in
Poland for a few years, and then -- until the war was over, and then came after
the First World War was over. And my paternal grandparents removed to --
returned to Jerusalem in the early 1950s, and lived there until they died. And
my uh, dad, I talk about that because my dad really had a lot of the same
feelings, and one of the earliest things I remember was his talking about the
00:10:00British white paper, and what it meant in terms of um, not allowing Jews to re
-- go to Palestine, and what this meant in terms of the Jewish communities in
Europe, and what was happening, uh, during -- during the rise of Nazism in World
War II, and after World War II. And he was very strongly committed to that, and
involved in working toward the establishment of the state. And my mother also
um, you know, was a very -- I would say that even though my maternal
grandparents' orientation was Orthodox, they were not that -- they were not
strict. Um, as strict about it, although it was a kosher home, and my
grandfather was the pillar of a small little Orthodox congregation in Madison,
00:11:00and uh, you know, certainly attended synagogue regularly, uh, every Shabbat.
Um, and they -- they too had a very strong commitment to the idea of a -- a
Jewish state, a Jewish homeland. And um, Henrietta Szold, who was the founder
of Hadassah, had a sister who lived in Madison, whose husband -- her
brother-in-law was uh, in the department of psychology at the University of
Wisconsin. And my grandmother and my mother and um, all of the family, you
know, really had a very strong commitment to the idea of the um, establishment
of a -- of a homeland.
CRANE: When you um, described your home as being Orthodox and kosher, and yet
you say it wasn't strict, what did -- what do you mean by that?
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SAXE: Oh. Well my grandparents. OK, so my -- in my paternal grandparents'
home, it was pretty strict. You didn't light lights on Shabbat and you, you
know, didn't light a fire. Uh, when they returned to Jerusalem, and I was there
for a year during uh, after they had come back, and I would go to visit, their
-- in -- in uh, Jerusalem at that time, that was the '50s, they had these sort
of little stoves that you would um, I guess they were electric, I don't
remember. It doesn't matter so much whether they're electric or gas, but the
idea was that it was a stove that could be kept at a very low flame, and that
was how they kept the food hot. And my grandmother would make cholent every
Friday and, you know, if I came for lunch, and later my brother said the same
thing, you know, you would come, and that was your Shabbat lunch. And they did
not -- uh, they didn't light lights, they didn't, you know, use the telephone,
00:13:00they certainly didn't ride, um, and it -- it was just their way of life, and --
and that was the way it was when they lived in Brooklyn, when I was little,
before they had returned to Israel. And we would visit, and um, with my
maternal grandparents, uh, they would turn on lights. My grandmother did not
cook or sew on Shabbat, or iron or do anything of that sort. Uh, and my
grandfather basically um, I guess, by the time I really remembered and knew him
well, he was retired. But uh, he could walk around the corner to his synagogue,
so he didn't need to ride. And um, I don't remember if they would play the
radio, but they were not quite as strict in their observance as my paternal
grandparents were.
CRANE: And in your home growing up, what was that like? What was Judaism like there?
00:14:00
SAXE: Oh, so -- yeah. So, so ours was already, I don't know if you would call
it more Americanized or whatever. But uh, my mother wouldn't sew, she would
turn on the stove, but she wouldn't cook the cooking. She always -- we kept a
kosher home, she always uh, you know, basically cooked for Shabbat on Friday. I
mean, yeah, there -- we went through a long time when she would make her own
challahs and so on, but it was all done on Friday. She really didn't cook on
Saturday. You know, of course my dad would -- would be at uh, services on
Shabbat morning anyway, as a matter of course, and Friday night services. Uh,
being a Conservative congregation, uh, they at that time, they had um, services
-- late Friday night services, around eight o'clock at night. Um, you know, now
a lot of Conservative congregations not -- you know, not only Orthodox but
Conservative, and even Reform congregations, will have an earlier Friday night
00:15:00Erev Shabbat service, so that everybody, you know, does the Kabbalat Shabbat,
welcomes Shabbat, and goes home for dinner. Um, when I was growing up in
Conservative congregations, they would, you know, because people worked until
five, six o'clock, whatever, so they would come home, they would have their
dinner, and then come to services, you know, later in the evening on Friday
night. But um, my dad walked all his life, walked to the synagogue on -- until
after the last few years when he really, um, he could -- he was still mobile but
it was very difficult for him to walk, and my brother would take him. Uh, he
would -- went to live with my brother in Jerusalem, after my mother died. And
my brother would take him to the synagogue, uh, for Shabbat morning services.
But um, up until that time, he walked every -- on Shabbat.
00:16:00
CRANE: What did your parents teach you about Judaism, and how did this impact
the choices you made in life?
SAXE: Oh.
CRANE: That's a tough one, huh?
SAXE: Well, you know, I -- I lived -- I lived in a rabbi's home, so um, we --
we celebrated holidays, I, you know, from a young age, even before my dad had
his congregation in Green Bay, but particularly after that, we moved back to
Madison and he did not have a congregation in Madison. Um, you know, it was
just a given that I would go -- go to Hebrew school, that I would go to Sunday
school, they certainly believed that I, as a girl, should be educated Jewishly.
Uh, I think my mother always regretted that she had very little formal Jewish
education, it was more of what she learned from her parents at home, and, you
know, my grandmother in the kitchen kind of thing. But -- uh, and in later
00:17:00years, I remember she would go to Hebrew classes that, you know, the
congregation would run adult Hebrew classes. Um, but uh, and uh, except for one
summer, I -- every -- from the time I was about nine years old, I was going to
Jewish camps, and I -- for a couple of summers, I went to Roma in Wisconsin,
right after it was established. And there, it was -- the idea was to -- Hebrew
immersion, and so I really, I began to learn conversational Hebrew, along with
the more conventional Biblical Hebrew that I learned in Hebrew school. And um,
so it was just, it was -- it was just sort of a -- a given that that was what we
were going to do. Um, once I was -- (laughter) also, I belonged, in Madison, we
00:18:00moved -- we moved to Green Bay when I was about three, three and a half. We
came back to Madison when I was about nine. And my dad didn't -- as I said, did
not have a congregation. So for a variety of reasons, we belonged to all three
congregations that existed in Madison at the time. At the Orthodox
congregation, because of my grandparents, at the Conservative congregation
because my dad wanted -- and my mother wanted me to have the Hebrew school, you
know, Jewish education. And the Reform congregation, because uh, he was a very
good friend of the Reform rabbi, who was uh, a German refugee, and uh, who --
and they did not have Hebrew school, but they had a confirmation class. So I
ended up being both bat mitzvah and confirmed. Bat mitzvah at the Conservative
congregation, and confirmed in the Reform congregation. So, I had a lot of
Jewish. (laughter)
CRANE: They kept you busy. Uh, where did you go to school? Um --
00:19:00
SAXE: You mean what --
CRANE: University.
SAXE: Oh, university? I went to Brandeis.
CRANE: And what did you study there?
SAXE: I majored in sociology. And um, and then I got a master's degree in
social work at the University of Washington. I was already married, and we um,
went out to the University of Washington for Stanley uh, to take a uh, post doc
-- two year post doc program in periodontics, and I ended up in graduate school there.
CRANE: What involvement did you have in the Jewish organizations while you were
on campus? And why, if you did?
SAXE: Oh, on campus?
CRANE: Mm-hmm.
SAXE: Um, I got very involved, and when I -- when I was in high school still,
the -- and especially in -- well, in Madison, um, the -- the then-main Jewish
00:20:00Zionist student organization was something called the International Zionist
Federation of America, IZFA. And uh, I knew about it and had contact with it
there, because uh, we were also friendly with the Hillel rabbi, and once I had
gone to Roma, he had a sort of a Hebrew conversational group that would meet
Sunday evenings at his home, and so I used to go, even though I was still in
high school. By the time I got to Brandeis, and then we moved to Florida and I
had two years of high school in Florida. So there, I got very involved in Young
Judaea, which is a Zionist youth movement. And uh, so by the time I got to
00:21:00Brandeis, IZFA was really dying. It had been -- it was pretty left --
left-wing, I don't know that that was the only reason, I think it just sort of
had run its course. And had been, you know, at its strongest when the state of
Israel -- when the War of Independence was going on, the state of Israel was
established, and I got to college, it was 1953, I mean it wasn't so long after
Israel had been established. And um, it -- so there was a kind -- so I was
involved on campus, and then there was a conference that was held to -- in New
York, to discuss what kind of a campus Zionist national, nationwide -- campus
Zionist organization we wanted to have. You know, what we would develop. And
00:22:00out of that came something called the Student Zionist Organization. Now all of
this had been -- also was supported by uh, through some of the adult Zionist
organizations like the ZOA, Zionist Organization of America, Hadassah, and they
had actually formed something called the American Zionist Youth Commission. So,
we came under -- the Student Zionist Organization came under their umbrella, and
we got support from them. So um, I was very involved in that for the first two
years at Brandeis. And then I took a year off, went to Israel on a work study
program that was run by the Jewish Agency for Israel, and actually went as a
representative of SZO. And with -- and to do that program, you had to make a
commitment to come back and work within your organization or movement for two
00:23:00years. So, that's what I did. (laughter) And um, we did a -- we organized, you
know, a number of -- there were a group of us in the greater Boston area. And
so, it wasn't even so much what we did on individual campuses as what we tried
to do within a broader scope and, you know, Boston has tens of universities and
colleges, and thousands and thousands of Jewish students, so we ran some
educational programs, we uh, kind of partnered with the Boston University
Hillel, and ran a number of um, holiday programs, Chanukah and Purim, and uh --
which is how I met Stanley. Um, we uh, did some of the same thing at Harvard
Hillel. So, it was really kind of a broader, you know, broader base.
00:24:00
CRANE: Hmm. Before we get too much into your life here in Kentucky, is there
anything unique we should know about your family background or childhood years
that you haven't already mentioned?
SAXE: Oh gosh. Um, yeah I would say, yeah, I think -- I think one of the --
the most critical things that happened to me, there were a couple of things.
One is that we moved from Wisconsin to Florida, and that was um, traumatic as me
for a teenager but ended up being very beneficial in other ways. Because I got
involved in Young Judaea, and through Young Judaea, I ended up going to Israel
for the first time in 1952 for the summer. And that was really a -- a huge, um,
00:25:00it had a huge impact on me. Uh, it was really um, you know, it was something my
-- my dad had always said we'll -- we'll go and visit when things settle down.
And um, and then I ended up being the first one to go back, uh, from our family.
Um, and I was there for six weeks, and it just um, it just was a pivotal time
in my life. It was uh, and so it was then that I found out about this program
that I did four years later, when I was in college. So I would say that was --
that was really significant. And also as a result of that move, I ended up at
Brandeis. If I -- I'm not sure where I would have gone if we stayed in Madison,
but if we had moved somewhere besides Florida, which uh, had a very strong
00:26:00element in the community that supported Brandeis, which was very new at the
time, I probably would have ended up at a different campus, and, you know, would
have had a very different experience.
CRANE: Hmm. OK. So what brought you to Kentucky?
SAXE: All right. So, skipping over a few years. So um, I met Stanley when um,
I came back from Israel, from my year in Israel. And we were married in 1958.
And he, uh, he -- I graduated from college, and he graduated from dental school,
and decided that he wanted to uh, go on and uh, specialize in periodontics. And
um, through a series of connections, which he'll tell you about, um, we ended up
in Seattle at the University of Washington, uh, for his program. And uh, which
00:27:00took two years and then he was teaching for a couple of years, and we were just
about ready to settle in Seattle, because we really loved it. Um, and had
really built a wonderful community of friends. And he got a call from the uh,
dental school here, they had not started -- they were just getting ready to open
the dental school, and he was recruited to come here in the department of
periodontics. Uh, so he was part of the opening faculty in 1962.
CRANE: Wow.
SAXE: Uh, it was a very small group, very dynamic, very exciting. Uh, mostly,
you know, we were among the youngest but, you know, nobody was very old. And
uh, and that's what got us here.
CRANE: From a Jewish perspective, what was the biggest adjustment, moving to Lexington?
SAXE: Um, it wasn't -- it -- it really wasn't uh, much of an adjustment.
00:28:00Growing up in Madison, which was basically a smaller Jewish community, not as
small as Lexington, but a small town, small city, small town Jewish community,
um, you know, it -- it was -- that was not so different. I -- what the big
change really was that we came here, and we were no longer graduate students,
and really began to feel a response -- an adult, grownup kind of responsibility
to -- to get involved and be a part of the Jewish community. I mean, in -- in
Seattle, um, yeah I went to services at various places and I had Jewish friends
and, you know, and we would celebrate the holidays and the last year we were
there, we did join a congregation. But it was, you know, still kind of
operating on a graduate student mentality. So, I didn't feel as much of a
00:29:00responsibility to uh, even though I was working within the Jewish community, at
the Jewish family service. But, you know, I didn't have that sense that I had
to be, you know, take on some of the responsibility, and that certainly was
something that happened here. I -- it wasn't a shock, it -- it really was --
was kind of nice, because everybody was very welcoming. Ohabei Zion in
particular was -- is a very warm congregation, and the people we met at the
beginning were very welcoming, very supportive. And -- and basically, just
about everybody that we met in the Jewish community was -- was really lovely.
CRANE: Describe Judaism in your home as an adult in Lexington, and as a parent.
SAXE: Well --
CRANE: And maybe how it was different between -- from what it was like when you
00:30:00were growing up.
SAXE: Yeah, we um, yeah uh, we definitely tried to observe the holidays, and
joining a congregation meant that we were, you know, if not every week, we were
certainly attending synagogue more regularly, and certainly for the high holy
days, and special occasions, and so on. And at home, just um, I remember the
first -- I think it was the first Rosh Hashanah that we were here even, having
another young couple over, and, you know, the cook -- cooking -- cooking myself,
that was a big -- that really, for me, was a big change, because up until then,
we always had friends, you know, grownup friends who would invite us for the
00:31:00holidays. And um, this was, you know, beginning to really build our own -- our
own home, uh, around the holidays. And uh, once we started to have kids, um,
you know, it became much more -- it became not only what we were doing for
ourselves, but, you know, wanting to create that kind of an atmosphere, a
positive atmosphere, for our children. So, you know, certainly, you know,
having holiday meals, and holiday celebrations, and you know, giving the kids a
sense of being Jewish, and growing up -- for them, growing up in Lexington,
where they were, you know, very often, the only Jewish child in their class, you
00:32:00know, it meant very often, you know, I was, you know, the mom who trudged off to
school to explain what it means to be Jewish in the classroom as part of a, you
know, whatever um, you know, outreach. And it was -- but what I found in
Lexington, I'm, you know, chances are, I know that there were country clubs that
were restricted, but what I found in terms of our day to day life, the people we
met and in the schools where my kids went um, you know, was more interest in
what it was to be Jewish, because they had never met Jewish people before. And
I remember um, one of the kids, uh, had a student teacher who was the wife of a
minister, and she was so excited. (laughter) She'd never met a Jewish person
before. So that was, you know, a lot of what our experience was, when the kids
were little. And uh, and then becoming committed to things like Hebrew school,
00:33:00and Sunday school, and um, I did some teaching at the Hebrew school and Sunday
school at Ohabei Zion, and I was -- ended up being the principal for, I don't
know, about five, six, seven years, something like that. Um, so it um, you
know, it -- again, became part of our lives, you know, day to day lives, because
uh, I was -- I was involved with things like that. And -- and the sisterhood.
Um, and so on.
CRANE: What were your children's involvement in the synagogue or the religious
school, the community activities? Um.
SAXE: Well, their Hebrew school, you know, was a -- well Sunday school, as soon
as they were old enough, which started really at a kindergarten level, uh, all
00:34:00the way through bar and bat mitzvah, and we really didn't have -- we did, uh,
when I was Sunday school principal, we started a class, um, for junior high, at
the time that was junior high, uh, for junior high kids. So beyond bar and bat
mitzvah, not every child in the congregation who was bar and bat mitzvah ended
up in that -- those classes, but quite a number did. And um, that was something
that I really -- and, you know, got support from the parents, and -- and the uh,
the congregation. The idea that their Jewish education shouldn't end with being
bar or bat mitzvahed, that there really was more that they could do. So, it was
a Sunday school class, if we had a good teacher, it was a good experience, if we
didn't have such a good teacher, it was not such a great experience. Um, we
00:35:00were very fortunate for a couple of years, when I was principal, um, I think
probably more when my middle daughter Natalie, um, was -- was going through that
-- that age, time, um, we had a really terrific, uh, woman who was a
professional educator. And she -- you know, she really did a great job. But
the kids, I think it was important for the kids, because it was another way to
connect to their Jewish peers. You know, they didn't all go to the same school,
they didn't necessarily see each other on a daily basis. The other thing that
was important for all three of my kids was Young Judaea, which we established.
There was the -- the congregation went from having just -- just before we came
00:36:00to Lexington, having uh, given up its formal affiliation with the Orthodox
movement. And began to move toward a more Conservative approach, uh, one of the
big things was the men and women sitting together instead of separate. And um,
they um, uh, it -- but they were not affiliated with the Conservative movement.
So, we weren't -- uh, we weren't involved with the Conservative youth -- youth
groups at all. And Young Judaea, through Hadassah, and through -- largely
through the impetus of Marilyn Moosnick, we started to establish Young Judaea
groups for the different age levels here. And that really made a difference,
because the kids, it meant it was something that reached across congregational
00:37:00lines, um, to some extent it was also their -- Young Judaea has camps, summer
camps, and the kids were going to camp, so they were meeting not only um, having
some of their Lexington friends go, but meeting kids from -- particularly from
all over the Midwest. Uh, and some of those friendships still exist today. You
know, 30, 40 years later, so um, so that was a part of it. Um, so -- and then,
you know, because I was um, when I was Sisterhood president, really the kids
were too small, it didn't matter that much. But when I was Sunday school
principal, they were all still in Sunday school, so that, you know, so they knew
there was this close connection. And also, our oldest daughter Harriet actually
worked for a couple of years while she was in high school as Rabbi Schwab's
assistant. He had already become blind, and needed somebody, you know, an
00:38:00assistant in the classroom when he taught Hebrew school. And she -- she was his
assistant for several years.
CRANE: I know that you were actively involved in the formation of the Havurah.
Uh, can you first describe what the Havurah is, and tell about the Jewish
community's climate that was key to its formation?
SAXE: Um, there was, in the '60s and '70s, the Havurah movement began. And it
really, interestingly, it really began at Brandeis, way after I had left. But
the original Havurah uh, was a group of students at Brandeis who wanted uh,
something, there was a lot of um, feeling within the -- certainly the younger
adult community, student community, younger adult community, that they wanted
00:39:00something that was not as structured as most congregations were, and are in many
cases, that it was too stratified, it was too -- too rigid and, you know, it
didn't matter what the stream of Judaism but that, you know, that the -- the um,
governmental social structure was very stratified, very kind of rigid. And so,
a group of students got together, and they were knowledgeable about uh, Jewish
things, and uh, they wanted something that would be egalitarian, and uh, really
to find new ways to live their Judaism. And um, so there was -- a group began,
um, in the Boston area. A lot of -- really out of Brandeis. And they had a
house in Somerville, Massachusetts, um, where they -- they lived and they
00:40:00celebrated, and they actually wrote um, one of the -- one of the couples was --
a collaboration of several others, wrote a couple of guidebooks, um, that --
talking about ways to celebrate -- to observe Jewish -- Judaism and celebrate,
you know, going back to recipes for making challah, but then how do you make um,
a whole wheat challah? Because that's healthier. Um, but, you know, ways to
celebrate Sukkot, ways -- how, different -- a different approach to Pasoch so
that when you had a Seder, you didn't necessarily read from the Maxwell House
Haggadah but there were, you know, they wrote their own Haggadahs and related it
to current events and current times. Reconstructionist Judaism had done some of
00:41:00this, but this, you know, this was really the idea that you're doing it for
yourself and your peers and you're doing it together. So, this was really a
growing movement. In the meantime, here in Lexington, um, the Ohabei Zion was
um, you know, was still very -- very much, even though they would call them --
might have called themselves conservative, as opposed to Orthodox, it certainly
wasn't Orthodox. But yeah, I mean for starts, because you had the mixed seating
and, you know, there were other things. But, you know, there was still -- women
were not counted in the minyan, girls could be bat mitzvahed, but only on Friday
night. Um, that Rabbi Schwab really uh, I remember talking to him about
teaching my daughter Harriet the Torah, and he was absolutely horrified at the
00:42:00thought. And I -- he said, "Why would you want to do that?" And I said, you
know, we had a pretty good working relationship, he and I, and -- because I --
that's when I was the principal. And he -- and he said, "Why would you want to
do that?" And I said, "Well, I think it just would make it more meaningful for
her if she, you know, was able to, you know, follow and kind of had that extra
knowledge." "Well the next thing you know, she's going to want to read Torah."
And, you know, as far as he was concerned, that was just, you know, one of the
-- the boundaries that he could not see being crossed. Um, when a number of
people -- really, it was our -- sort of our peer group, who at the time were --
we were what, in our late thirties, into our forties, um, and our kids were --
were teenagers, uh, or soon to be teenagers, and we started, you know, talking
00:43:00about what we could do, for example, for girls to make it more meaningful for
them, for -- to maybe make, you know, make the services more open, and uh, allow
girls to -- to do more, and not necessarily cut them off as soon as they were
bat mitzvahed. That was the other thing, the cutoff line was bat mitzvah, and
then that was it. They got up on the bima to lead the Friday night services,
and that was the end. Never again. And um, and other things, just to uh, you
know, kind of broaden out, and uh, because there was that -- kind of that mood
going through the American Jewish community. And in a lot of places and in a
lot of ways, um, in the Reform movement, it was moving towards more traditional
observances, you know, from what had been very -- in their definition, you know,
00:44:00very rigidly uh, you know, what they considered modern. And beginning to open
themselves up to some of the customs and observances that they had kind of
pushed aside. So there was -- there was just a whole new feeling, and um, and a
group of us got together and we were just not happy with what was -- what was
happening, and the kind of, not only the response from the rabbi, but then the
response from the leadership of -- of the synagogue. There was a lot of
bitterness at -- at that point towards us, because they felt that we were
somehow stepping over our bounds, and there was very much a, sort of a climate
that if the rabbi said this was the way it should be, that's the way it had to
be. And so, we formed what we called a Havurah, with the idea that we would
00:45:00follow Conservative practice, but that we -- and by that time, the Conservative
movement was counting women that we would be egalitarian, that we would be
peer-led, that we would basically create our own -- our own way of expressing
our -- our Jewishness. And um, so when we started, for example, Stanley put --
my husband put together a um -- and -- and my dad was very supportive of this,
and he really was very helpful. Um, he sat down, Stanley had been uh, chairman
of the religious committee at -- at Ohabei Zion so he, you know, was pretty
familiar with the ritual and stuff. But he sat down with my dad and over a
period of a number of days, in those early days, just my dad went through all
00:46:00the high holy day services, Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, uh, you know, what you
could do that would be, you know, that -- that was basic and important to keep
in, what you could perhaps uh, alter a little bit, or change a little bit. The
conservative movement had put out a um, uh, a machzor, the prayer book for the
high holy days, for young people. For kids. And there were wonderful readings
in it, and wonderful adaptations of the service. So we took stuff from there,
we took -- used, you know, the traditional machzor, and put together Rosh
Hashanah services and had Rosh Hashanah services, had Yom Kippur services, had
our own break the fast, and it was um, and everybody -- everybody who came and
00:47:00was a part of it, and there were -- I don't remember how many there were to
start, maybe 15, maybe 20 couples at the most, and not everybody was from the
synagogue. There were people from the temple, who were affiliated with the
temple, and there were quite a number of families, of young couples, who were
here in Lexington, and were not interested in joining a congregation. They
really came out of this um, you know, wave of -- of uh, anti-establishment
feeling. And uh, a lot of them have since moved out of town, and any number of
them are leaving lights in -- in the congregations now, they became leadership
in the congregations, but this really brought them in. We also were very open
to uh, people in mixed marriages, and we were also, at one point, we uh, were
00:48:00probably the first uh, congregation -- I mean, if -- if you want to characterize
us as a congregation in the strictest sense of the word, what uh, to have a gay
couple as membership. And they no longer live here, but they still talk about,
when we have seen them and when people, you know, mutual um, friends have come
back and forth or whatever, you know, we -- we still get very positive uh,
feedback from them. It meant a lot, and they are very involved Jewishly, still,
in their own community.
CRANE: What year was this? When?
SAXE: That this all happened?
CRANE: Mm-hmm.
SAXE: Let's see, the Havurah began in 19-- we had our 30-year anniversary what,
about 7, 8 years ago? So in about 19-- in the 1970s, uh, I'd have to go back.
00:49:00Um, yeah, because let's see, '63, '76, '75. Right, oh and girls in the -- at
Ohabei Zion had to be bat mitzvahed at age 12, not 13. So, let's see. When
Harriet was bat mitzvahed, it was '75, and Natalie was '77. So it was right
around '77, '78 that we started. And um, there -- for a time, we had um, there
were a lot of families that came in that had little kids, and sort of the
original core, our kids were all bar and bat mitzvah and beyond. So it wasn't
so crucial for them, but um, there were quite a number of couples who joined,
00:50:00who had little children. And for a while, we ran our own preschool program.
You know, I mean not a -- every day, but like a preschool Sunday school. And
that was also with volunteers, and then it just got to the point where, you
know, people ran out of steam and -- and resources, and the knowledge to really
-- and motivation to go further. And that was a time when um, a lot of those
younger couples who had not previously joined a congregation became affiliated
with a congregation so their kids could go to religious school. It -- um, it
was a significant time for them. And for their decision, some of them stayed
with the Havurah, some of them left eventually.
CRANE: So there was like, dual membership of --
SAXE: Yeah, yeah. We never -- some of our early Ohabei Zion people resigned
from the synagogue, but a bunch of us stayed affiliated. So it was not all of
00:51:00one or the other. There was a lot of anger at Ohabei Zion that we had done
this, um, and uh, but very interesting, because it -- soon after that, Rabbi
Schwab became too ill -- well, he was getting increasingly debilitated, and the
congregation realized that they needed to make preparations for when he could no
longer officiate. And started a rabbinical search, and I was actually on the
search committee that chose Ori Smith. And I interviewed him down in Florida
before they brought him up here to be interviewed here in Lexington. And it was
-- the decision was that -- and by then, also interestingly, there were already
00:52:00the next wave of the sort of the next generation of families came along, and
they had the same concerns that we did, it wasn't that we were so out of line,
it was just that we happened to be the first. But, when the next group of young
families came along and they were agitating for the same kind of thing, I think
everybody realized that, you know, hey maybe, you know, we need to do something
as a community, as a congregation. So, when the -- when we started the
rabbinical search, it was with the understanding that whoever came in would be
willing to have an egalitarian congregation, and that there would be this
movement, this change, within the congregation. And I remembered interviewing
Rabbi Smith in Florida, and talking about how, you know, what the expectations
00:53:00were. They wanted somebody who was traditional in the way he lead the service,
but they wanted somebody who would be open to these changes. And um, and I must
say that he was -- Ori Smith was very sensitive to that, and he came with a plan
for how he wanted to transition, so that he would not offend Rabbi Schwab. He
was very -- very sensitive to the fact that Rabbi Schwab had been the rabbi, and
had these, you know, rules that he lived by, these standards that he lived by.
Sadly, Rabbi Schwab died just about the time that Ori came. I, you know, it was
just one of those things that happened. But, Ori really initiated, introduced,
you know, training for the women, and counting the women in the minyan, and
00:54:00using women as part of the service. And I can still remember some of those
early services at the old building, uh, on Maxwell Street, you know, when the
women were beginning to do that, and it was -- it was a huge, huge step forward.
And very emotional, I think, for a lot of women. And I found that true around
the country. Um, when I uh, in the '80s, when I was the director for the
Federation here in Lexington, and I would go to meetings for small community
directors and things like that, you know, there were other communities, you
know, going through similar -- not identical, but very similar kinds of
experiences, and for women it was a very groundbreaking, very emotional time to
suddenly find your status within Judaism changing.
00:55:00
CRANE: Judy, you really are a wealth of information.
SAXE: I'm sorry, what?
CRANE: I said, you really are a wealth of information. (laughter) Um, how has
the Havurah changed over time in Lexington? Is it still active?
SAXE: Yeah.
CRANE: OK.
SAXE: The Havurah is still active, uh, we basically are aging in place. Um,
over the years we had a lot of members who moved away. Uh, apart from people
who, you know, still live in Lexington who were members and are no longer
members. Um, at our peak we were probably about 40, 40 -- between 40 and 45
family units. Right now, we hover around -- around 30, between 30 and 35,
probably low thirties. And that includes a lot of singles, um, we don't really
have anybody now who has young children. Most of us are grandparents. Um, I'm
00:56:00just trying to think, you know, of everybody who's a member. Uh, we still, you
know, are -- have adult children, certainly. Um, and we keep talking about
what's going to happen, you know, because we -- and we'll get occasional,
somebody will come into town, move into town, and, you know, who wants -- who's
attracted by the kind of uh, structure we have which is, you know, pretty loose,
but it's there. I mean we have officers, we try to meet at least once a month,
we uh, we've had to make adaptations as we've shrunk. Uh, you know, for
instance, on the high holidays, we do two days of Rosh Hashanah services, and
generally a portion of our members go to their respective congregation. You
00:57:00know, congregational buildings on the first day, come the second day, or vice
versa. So, we're never sure if we're going to have a minyan, although so far,
we have. But, the people who -- those of us who are part of it, and not all of
them are, you know, from the original group, quite a number have passed away.
Even so, there's -- there's a lot of loyalty. And it's very special, because
it's so small. And interestingly, a lot of big congregations, particularly um,
in the Reform and Conservative movements, uh, have started Havurah within --
within the congregation, so that there will be a group that -- of young
families, for example, that, you know, have kids about the same age, and they'll
meet for Shabbat dinner instead of going to the synagogue, or they'll have extra
00:58:00celebrations or whatever. Um, but that's had mixed success. So, we um, we
still -- we still meet. We have -- once a year, we have an education retreat
that is uh, probably why uh, you know, a certain portion of people stay as
members, because even through much heartrending, soul searching, we've just
decided that it should be for members only. We did agree that people could
invite at least one or two guests uh, last year, and, you know, really ended up
that it was still our same core. And we bring in -- we pay minimal dues,
because we don't have a building, we don't have a rabbi. And um, so we -- the
money that we accumulate, we use, you know, for something like edu-- an
00:59:00educational program. And we usually have some pretty -- pretty neat stuff.
CRANE: Hmm. Um, to the best of your ability, how did your children, not that
we know what our children's thoughts and feelings are all the time, but how did
your children feel about their Jewishness in Lexington?
SAXE: Um, hmm.
CRANE: Did they maybe describe any experiences with anti-Semitism in Lexington?
Um, like what was the non-Jewish community's reaction to them being Jewish?
SAXE: The girls really didn't, I don't think much. Neil had um, was uh, was --
was a soccer player, and he went out for soccer at his high school, and ran into
a coach -- well, they -- they prayed before every game. And he wouldn't pray.
(laughter) And the coach got very angry, and supposedly said something, alluded
01:00:00to his being Jewish. Uh, Stanley went over, had a talk with the coach, who
said, "No, no, no, you know, just" -- but he felt that -- that, you know, Neil
wasn't showing respect, and whatever, whatever. And he dropped out of soccer.
Um, at -- at the high school. There also, um, I think probably Natalie and Neil
both, in terms of their high school experience especially, you know, the whole
-- well, I -- wait, I take it back. When Natalie was six years old, and in
first grade, um, you know, there's a lot of Christmas that goes on in the
schools. You know, and supposedly it's not religious, it's all secular stuff.
But, uh, there's a lot of holiday stuff that goes on. And um, she uh, clearly
01:01:00felt it, I -- I wasn't even as aware of it, but her teacher told me that uh, she
-- she was doing some assignment at her desk, and -- and the teacher walked
over, and it was the first African-American teacher at Glendover School, and
really a terrific gal. And clearly very sensitive to minority issues, and she
said there was Natalie, saying something like um, happy, happy, I don't know if
it was Chanukah or whatever, and yucky, yucky Christmas. So, you know, clearly
there was -- there was a consciousness about it. And when Neil was in second
grade, his teacher had been -- was really known in the school as somebody who
went all out with Christmas decorations, and put up a lot of religious pictures,
you know, the -- the Virgin Mary, and all that kind of stuff. So, Merle
01:02:00Weckstein and I went over to talk to um, the teacher. Well we talked to the
principal, and we talked to the teacher, and uh, she said well, you know, this
is uh, something about uh, this is fine art that I'm putting up. That was it.
"This is fine art." You know, it was some -- like a Rembrandt or a Reubens or
something, of some saint. And we said, "Well then why couldn't you put it up
in, you know, show, do it a -- a section on fine art in March?" And she said,
"Oh but then it wouldn't be the right time of year." (laughter) So, you know,
there -- there was stuff like that. But the -- but they really, I think, were
pretty firmly -- had a pretty firm sense of themselves as Jews. Because I also
um, uh, you know, they -- there were discussions, certainly when they were in
01:03:00high school, there were some discussions about holiday observance, and I know
that -- that the kids spoke up in class. I mean, they were not afraid to uh, or
reluctant, you know, to -- to talk about how they felt and what they thought was
right. So, I think they all came through it with a pretty strong -- strong
sense of identity.
CRANE: What supports or challenges were there in raising your children Jewish
in Lexington?
SAXE: Wait, say that again?
CRANE: What supports and challenges were there in raising your children Jewish
in Lexington?
SAXE: Oh, support and challenge?
CRANE: Yeah.
SAXE: Well, I think the uh, the Jewish community in general, and I think Ohabei
Zion in particular, had -- was a -- is a -- it was and is a very close
community. Um, now that our kids are out of -- out of Lexington, and we're
01:04:00older, and we're not around as much, you know, we're not as involved, but it was
very much a part of our lives. And there was a lot of support, and the other
kids, whether they -- whether they loved each other, you know, there weren't
very many of any age group, so whether they loved each other so much or not, it
didn't matter. But there was still that -- there was a bond. And the parents,
you know, there was a lot of support, uh, at the parent level. And just at the
congregational level. Um, so that was -- that was very good. The other thing
was really -- there were a couple of other things. One was that my parents were
just uh, you know, that it was because um, they were so positive -- Jewishly
identified in a very positive way, that was really part of my kids', you know,
environment, and their -- their life experience. Um, I think that the
01:05:00challenges were, which -- which I had growing up too, in -- in Wisconsin,
because it was a, you know, small Jewish community in a, you know, very much a
very small minority. Um, you know, almost everybody you know is not Jewish.
And you're sort of the novelty if you're Jewish. And um, so, you know, what
happens when they -- when they get to dating age, when they uh, when there are
uh, activities that happen on Shabbat? Or even more significant, during the
major Jewish holidays? Um, you know, always going through the issue of uh,
teachers giving tests on Rosh Hashanah, you know, that kind of thing. Um, or
other holidays when some of the more observant kids were staying home. Um, so
that's always a challenge. And um, I think -- you know, I really, I -- I --
01:06:00I'll have to ask my kids sometime how they felt about it in retrospect. Um, I
think Neil, the youngest, was the most of -- of the three, um, was the most
assertive about his being Jewish, and the most sensitive to uh, things that were
going on in school, or in the broader community that were um, you know, sort of
uh, you know, expressing the Christian spirit as opposed to a -- a nonsectarian
holiday kind of a -- a feeling. But, you know, they all came through it.
(laughter) Fortunately, I mean, or not everybody does, but -- but our kids, our
kids really, really did, in -- in the sense that I think they still have that --
01:07:00that sense of identity.
CRANE: How does your relationship to Jewish identity, uh, compare to that of
your children's now?
SAXE: Oh, I -- I'm probably more -- more um, more active in -- in observances
than any of them are. And I -- I don't think of myself as a particularly um,
observant person in the sense of, you know, sitting down to Shabbat dinner every
Friday night or, you know, whatever. But I'm prob-- probably more involved than
they are, although um, my oldest granddaughter, interesting, um, my
daughter-in-law ended up, they're -- they live in a very small community up in
northwestern Washington. And um, my daughter-in-law, who grew up in -- was born
01:08:00in the States, but grew up in Israel, has ended up teaching Hebrew at the Hebrew
school there. And my granddaughter, for her last two years of high school, was
actually a teaching assistant in the Hebrew school, and in the Sunday school
there. So um, uh, they're -- they sort of got pulled into it willy-nilly. (laughter)
CRANE: It works. I know that you've been very involved with Hadassah. Both at
the local and the national level. Um, if you could briefly explain what
Hadassah is, and tell me about your involvement with Hadassah, both locally and
nationally, um, when you got involved and why. And you certainly have a strong
Zionist background, from your family. Um, but if you could just speak a little
bit about that.
01:09:00
SAXE: Uh, OK. So, when I was a kid, I was involved in Young Judaea, which um,
very peripherally, I knew had some support from Hadassah. When I was in college
I, you know, spoke about my college involvement, and I knew that there was some
support. I knew that my -- my mother and my -- and her mother were -- and other
Jewish women in Madison, you know, were -- were active in Hadassah, and I
remember, you know, going, they would have uh, these mother child luncheons, you
know, things like that. So I remember that, but by the time I got into high
school, and even college, it was like that was, you know, something my mother
did that my grandmother did when she was alive, and, you know, wasn't for me.
And it wasn't until we came to Lexington, um, and that was part of what was so
nice about the Lexington Jewish community. Every -- every Jewish women's
01:10:00organization, the two sisterhoods from the Temple Adath Israel and Ohabei Zion,
and Hadassah, and at that time, the um, the -- oh, oh, um, I'm all of a sudden
blocking. Um, but another women's organization that's not here. But every um,
I'll remember it in -- in a minute. But anyway, uh, they would -- everybody
that they could identify as newcomers, all the women, each of the organizations
would have a luncheon in August or September, around the time of the -- the
holidays, working around the holidays. And each organization had uh, one week
of the month, you know, uh, Hadassah was, I remember the -- the programs were
the first week of -- the first Wednesday of the month, the Synagogue Sisterhood
was, I think, the second Tuesday of the month. You know, it was that kind of
thing. And, but all the young -- the new women that came in were invited to an
01:11:00opening luncheon by each of the organizations, and um, as -- as guests. And
each -- each one had a, you know, would have some kind of a special program.
But the idea was to welcome them, to introduce them to the Jewish community, and
to get to know them. I -- you know, it just was this wonderful, warm kind of
reception. So, um, it was a natural for me to gravitate toward uh, toward
Hadassah, because of its strong Israel orientation and, you know, the Sisterhood
at Ohabei Zion because we joined Ohabei Zion. So, when I be-- so, and then my
mother, who I think probably thought that we had really gone out into the -- the
boonies, and, you know, what -- whatever was going to happen to our Jewish
lives, uh, enrolled me as a life member in Hadassah. And I didn't think much of
01:12:00it as -- at the time, but uh, I got involved, there -- Marilyn Moosnick was
president of the chapter at the time, and she was, you know, very dynamic, very
attractive, very appealing. But there was a whole group of women who uh, were
-- were really just, you know, also equally involved and committed. I mean,
everybody from Hannah Levi, who was one of the founders back in the late '30s,
to people like Betty Rosenberg and Frankie Yeaties and um, I'm trying to think
of some of the others. Um, you know, just who I considered older women.
(laughter) But they were very, very welcoming, very accepting, and um so, you
know, if you showed any interest, they were very quick to mentor you. So, that
01:13:00was on a local level that it was very easy for me to get involved in Hadassah.
And on a more universal level, the idea that we supported um, the -- the medical
center in -- in Israel, that we supported Youth Aliyah which had always been
very much present in my life. My dad really was strongly committed to Youth
Aliyah, and used to do a lot of speaking and fundraising for them. And that was
basically a Hadassah project. And uh, just -- just the whole concept of what
Hadassah stood for. Um, and then as I got more involved and started to be on
the local chapter, and be -- and began to get involved in the region, which was
at the time, Ohio, Kentucky, West Virginia. Uh, and meet, you know, meet other
women, it just, it was just a wonderful other community of women and through --
01:14:00especially in the '70s, as the women's movement began to emerge and, you know,
become very vocal and very prominent, Hadassah really went along with it. So, a
lot of my um, evolution of -- in terms of -- of feminism. You know, my own
personal feminism really came through Hadassah. Um, we had a great women's
discussion group here for many years, we had some really interesting seminars on
a regional level, and then um, I went to my first national convention in 19-- I
think it must have been 1971. And that was not only because it was a very
exciting, you know, really to see thousands of women, and all working for the
same thing, but, you know, uh, just by chance, met people who had connections to
01:15:00my family. I mean, my parents and so on, and so, it was a whole construct, and
in 1970, in 1955, '56, when I was there for -- in Israel for the year studying,
um, the original Hadassah Hospital was lost, was -- Israel lost access to the
original Hadassah Hospital because the uh, Jordanians, uh, conquered the old
city of Jerusalem, and the hospital was in the eastern part uh, beyond -- east
of the -- the walls of the old city. And we did not have access to it. And
Hadassah had to -- used just a whole smattering of buildings in the city in the
west part of Jerusalem, uh, for clinics, until they could build a new medical
01:16:00center. In 1955, when I was there, uh, we went on a hike one day, a group of
us, and the hike -- the leader said, took us to a spot outside of the city, and
he said this is where there's going to be, they're building a new Hadassah
Hospital. I knew about Hadassah, I knew about the medical work, and how it was
all fractured and, you know, in different places. And he said, this is going to
be the new hospital. And then in 1970, we came on -- my husband took a
sabbatical, and we went to Israel, and he was teaching at the dental school at
Hadassah. And at that time, it was the only dental school in the country, and
lo and behold, there was -- here was this whole medical center, and this --
these -- in the hills, where I had been that used to be bare. I mean literally
01:17:00were bare, and here was this whole medical center. And it just was, you know,
just was such an amazing emotional experience for me, and uh, you know, we got
to meet people who were on the staff, and -- and it just -- just was a very
unique thing. So, when I came back two years later, I became the chapter
president, and that uh, meant that I was part of the region board, and then um,
I became very active in the region, and ultimately became the region president,
which made me a member of the national board. And that was in 1987. And uh,
and I've been on the national board ever since, and it's -- it just um, you
know, Israel -- Israel is very important to me. And I can -- and I, you know,
01:18:00clearly remember uh, the stories that came out of the Holocaust, and I very
clearly remember when Israel became -- when the vote was help in the United
Nations for partition, and sitting with my grandmother, and listening on the
radio to the results of the vote. And I remember when the state was declared,
and how important that was for us. So, each of these things uh, is very much a
part of my -- the fiber of my being. And uh, Israel has remained that way for
me, and I -- you know, now my brother lives there. And uh, his kids were born
there. We have other uh, you know, some other family, we have a lot of friends.
Uh, and uh, and I still -- you know, I still feel that the work that Hadassah
does, that that um, not only that it benefits Israel, but that it really offers
01:19:00an opportunity for the Jewish community here to have a very real and practical
bond with the state of Israel that is not just, you know, something that's --
that's in theory, but there's very -- their effects on the ground.
CRANE: Judy, it's my understanding that not just yourself, but um, others, that
there's a -- a disproportionate amount of women involved in Hadassah at the
national level from this Lexington chapter.
SAXE: (laughter).
CRANE: And I'm -- I'm just curious why you think that has happened, um, here?
Why does Lexington produce such phenomenal Hadassah leaders?
SAXE: (laughter) Right, we go around --
CRANE: And maybe if you could even mention some of them, besides um --
SAXE: Oh, well yeah. Um, I think that -- that I think Marilyn Moosnick had a
01:20:00great deal to do with -- with what happened. But she wasn't alone. I mean
there were -- there were people like --
CRANE: Right.
SAXE: -- Hannah Levi, there were people like -- I really need a -- a -- a
directory to try and remember, but um, uh, the -- um, Esther Moskowitz, and
Becky Golden, and you know, there just were -- yeah, you know, the old timers.
Uh, and Frankie Yeaties, and Betty Rosenberg, and uh, I'm -- you know, just off
the top of my head, I'm trying to think. Um, uh, who -- who worked, you know,
some of them were presidents, some just worked, you know, as volunteers, um, you
know, and I'm talking about a lot of these people who are no longer here, who
have, you know, died, many years ago. But they -- there was that strong feeling
01:21:00of um, of purpose. And it kind of -- oh, Ellen Henson. You know, and Anita
Baker, I mean it -- it really cut across all parts of the Jewish community. And
whatever, you know, the -- the -- the separation between the Reform congregation
and Ohabei Zion, whatever that was, Hadassah really bridged that. And um, so
that was uh, so there was a strong core of support. So, Marilyn was a unique --
Harriet Cooper, you know, was somebody who, you know, was very involved. Um,
but Marilyn was, you know, was a -- was a significant personality. I mean, her
-- her whole -- the, you know, charisma that she had. But she really came out
01:22:00of a very supportive -- these women that I'm talking about, the older women, I
mean they nurtured her, and supported her, it wasn't that she sprang out of
nothing. There was a -- there was really a strong base of support, so that, you
know, if she came up with an idea to do something, I mean, people came along and
there were -- they would do other things, and -- and, you know, or build on what
she had done. So, um, she wasn't fighting, you know, fighting against things,
she really -- there was a very positive um, uh, climate. So, OK. So she became
a region president. And that put her on the national board. And that was in
1970-- no, 1969. And then, we went off on sabbatical in 1970, Gail Cohen became
president in 19-- of the chapter in 1970. And she also uh, you know, was -- was
01:23:00-- is particularly bright and capable, and she kind of got -- and when she
became active on the regional level, she also became identified as somebody, you
know, with terrific leadership qualities, and who could uh, really um, move into
a -- a national position. So she was region president from '81 to '84. And
that put her on the national board, and she's been on the national board ever
since. And Marilyn, you know, was already on the national board and, you know,
so on. And then, I became president in 1987. And so then there were three
people from the -- on the national board from Lexington, Kentucky. Which really
was unusual, as far as the national board went. Because the way they had
01:24:00representation at that time, the system of representation was such that if you
lived outside of the New York metropolitan area, it was a relatively small
number of women who could be on the national board at any one time. I -- I
don't know, it -- it was um, you know, what it was, I guess we could have easily
have not been reelected, because we had to go through election processes, I
suppose we just as easily could have not been reelected. But I think we
supported each other, I think that we got very strong support from our
colleagues from our region. Um, it -- it just was a happenstance. Um, there's
a funny story when -- Alex Cohen and Ross Moosnick are the same age, and they
were in Israel on Young Judaea, the year -- of course, the same year. And what
you -- what you did at the time, you spent a certain amount of time in Jerusalem
01:25:00having conventional -- pretty much a conventional academic track, and then there
were -- there was a period of time, broken up into several segments, where you
would live on a kibbutz, or live on a moshav or, you know, do something that
related to some special interest you had. And it just happened by chance that
first, I forget whether it was Alex who came first or Ross, but they both ended
up with the same family at different times on a moshav. And the -- the moshav
father was just amazed that there were -- here were two kids from a little, you
know, town in -- in Kentucky. From the United States that, you know, he'd
barely heard from. He said, it must be a hotbed of Zionism. (laughter) And so
that became -- that sort of became our -- our mantra, you know, we're a hotbed
of Zionism. And more recently, Lynn Ferness lives in Versailles, but, you know,
01:26:00it's really part of the Lexington chapter of Hadassah. So uh, you know, there
are still three of us on the national board. Uh, and it -- and it is kind of
unusual. But --
CRANE: It is.
SAXE: -- I think, I think we just, we've been very fortunate here, and what was
a very positive supportive atmosphere. When we came in the -- in the '60s, has
continued and I -- I really believe we are a very um, really a very special,
it's a very special community, and it's a very special -- so as a result,
Hadassah has really benefited from that. I mean, we've got -- again, it's women
from across the whole community, um, we are by and large very supportive of each
other. Um, whereas you get, in some communities, you know, people are just more
01:27:00interested in tearing each other down than building each other up. And this has
been something that I -- I think has -- is at the core of this -- of this community.
CRANE: Judy, I know that um, you know, you come from a really significant
Israeli background, you're -- you know, your family was born in -- you have
family members that were born in Palestine, you've been actively involved in the
Jewish community, significantly Hadassah, um, how has all this impacted your own
personal views about Israel now, its politics?
SAXE: Good question. (laughter) Oh, I'll tell you what I tell a lot of my
non-Jewish friends when they ask me. So, I believe in the state of Israel, and
I believe that -- I believe -- just to the very fiber of my being, that it -- it
01:28:00is a homeland for the Jews. Whether -- whether I'm living there or not. And I
-- you know, and I really believe that we have a right to be there. We -- we
have a historic right. Do I always agree with the government of the state of
Israel? No. Do I always agree with the government of the United States of
America? No. Does that mean that I have given up my citizenship in the United
States of America if there's a president or a political movement that's going on
that -- that is uh, abhorrent to me? I do not. I believe very firmly that, you
know, in -- in this -- that this is a democratic country, that we are a
heterogeneous country, that despite some of the awful, hateful things that
happen. That there is an underlying foundation that, you know, that -- that
01:29:00will -- will survive. And I really feel the same way about Israel. It really,
it's -- it's not a -- it's not a democracy with the same kind of political
structure that is here in the United States. But is it a democracy in the sense
that there are citizens -- every citizen has rights? Yes. Is it a country
where people can speak their minds? Very definitely. (laughter) Um, I think
that sometimes, uh, because of that, um, you know, Israel gets -- gets a bad rep
because you get extremist views there, just like you get extremist views here.
Um, I think that um, both Jews and non-Jews are very quick to react -- to react
to things that come out of Israel. Um, you know, it's sort of like a little
01:30:00tender spot that you have, like you have a little sort on your -- on your arm
and you keep rubbing at it because it itches, or hurts or whatever. You know,
and it's -- it's -- it's kind of there. But, um, it's -- it's a wonderful
country. And they've taken in, I -- you know, if you look at the history of --
of Israel, and so many people who are quick to criticize it today have no sense
of what the history of Israel is. I mean, listen there are a lot of Americans
who have no sense of what the real history of the United States is, either. So,
they, you know, they don't understand what that -- that there was uh, there was
a community there before the state of Israel was declared, that there was, you
know, a growing Jewish presence before Hitler, the rise of Hitler. That it
wasn't -- yeah, did -- did the Holocaust have an impact on the ability uh, of
01:31:00the uh, the community there, the -- the Jews in Israel, to establish a state
with support from the Western world? Yes, there -- there was that, it certainly
had an impact, the reality, the Holocaust was just too horrendous for anybody to
wrap their minds around. But, you know, then -- then Israel took in thousands
of DPs. Israel took in thousands of refugees from Middle Eastern countries
where the, the governments were -- were hostile to Israel and had attacked
Israel, and they were either actively expelling the Jews, or um, doing -- you
know, taking action against them. That meant that they -- they had to leave.
Um, Israel has taken in Russians, Israel has taken in Ethiopians. They're still
taking in Ethiopians, they're still taking in Russians. They're taking in the
French now because there is a lot of concern about anti-Semitism in France.
01:32:00They've taken in thousands from South -- from the South American countries
because there have been various waves of anti-Semitism in South America. You
know, so it's a polyglot country, and depending on who's coming in when, you
know, depends for example, the signs you see on the stores, they'll be in Hebrew
and Arabic, when the Russians were coming, there was a lot of Russian, and a lot
of signs in Russian. You still see a lot of that. Uh, you know, the Russians
have really assimilated in terms of language. So on the -- they still are, you
know, fairly significant um, national or ethnic uh, group, you know, and -- and
have their own political uh, parties and issues. Um, similar things with the
Ethiopian community. But, um, you know, Israel -- Israel, what, this is --
Israel is um, '52, so it's 67 years old. I mean, we're not talking about a
01:33:00country that's been around for thousands of years. And it's still evolving.
Um, I -- I -- I'm not happy with the current government but, you know, I'm not a
citizen. If I were a citizen, would I have voted for Netanyahu? Absolutely
not. And I think that um, I think that -- that, you know, some of the things
that have happened that are, you know, in terms of public relations for Israel's
image, you know, that are negative, I think are, you know, you can lay at his
feet. But, he also, you know, let's be realistic, he is -- among the right of
center, he's probably among the more moderate. There are people who are way
more right-wing. But, you know, there are also people in the center and to the
01:34:00left of center. And, you know, who are working to balance that. And uh, uh,
you know, will there be changes? I think there will. Is it going to happen in
my lifetime? Who knows. But when I was a kid, I never thought there would be a
state of Israel, either. So.
CRANE: And there is.
SAXE: And there is. (laughter)
CRANE: Besides your involvement in Hadassah, I know that you've been very
active with the Jew-- Jewish Federation. Without going into great detail,
because I know you've done that in previous interviews, um, can you just share a
little bit about what your role with the Federation has been over the years?
Um, and -- and how it has changed over the years?
SAXE: Oh. Well, let's see. It started with the -- with Camp Shalom. Our
famous uh, you know, the mother -- the mothers from the two Sisterhoods getting
together and -- and starting um, Camp Shalom. And from that came uh, what we
01:35:00call the Jewish Community Association. Judy Levine was very, very much a leader
in helping that to come about. And over a lot of objections from particularly
the rabbis, because they saw this as somehow taking away from, you know, the --
the strength and the resources of the congregations, um, that quickly evolved
and took over, and along with the camp, it -- it also absorbed the uh, Jewish
Community Forum, which had been sort of a freestanding uh, but organizationally
supported series of lectures. And uh, as -- and then, when the idea came about
to really bring the campaign, which had been also a separate unit on its own,
01:36:00the UJA, United Jewish Appeal. And there were -- there was sort of a committee
of -- of five men who um, whose -- who ran the United Jewish Appeal campaign
here. And there were, you know, a lot of people who would help uh, you know
supported it in terms of soliciting members of the community, Leon Cooper and
Shelly Dare and David Weckstein, um, but who was -- was on the steering
committee, I don't remember exactly everybody. But um, people like Stanley Rose
and David Wheel, and um, probably um, you know, I -- I don't remember all of the
others. But anyway, um, then the concept came about, you know, knowing that the
Federations of North America existed, the idea of bringing the campaign and all
01:37:00of these elements together under one umbrella, and that was -- and Chuck
Gordesky and Dave Weckstein were pretty instrumental in that, each being
president of their respective congregations. And decided that this would be
beneficial for the community, and uh, so Chuck was the first um, president of
what was then the Central Kentucky Jewish -- became the Central Kentucky Jewish
Association. And David was the second president, and then it went on, Judy
Levine and Gloria, um, Katz, and Jack Miller. And not necessarily in that
order. Um, and that was after the JCA, the Jewish Community Association, had
been in existence for about six or eight years, and there had been a number of
people, Gail Cohen had been a president and -- and Judy, and I mentioned Judy
Levine, Mike Bayer, who doesn't live here anymore. And then, anyway, they
01:38:00started CKJA, and uh, for a couple of years, they had somebody working as kind
of a secretary administrative assistant, out of her home, um, Kitzy Neuberger,
who doesn't live here anymore. And then they decided that what they wanted to
do was really establish an office and make it, you know, more of a functioning,
you know, or conventionally functioning community organization, and also,
affiliate with the federations -- Jewish Federations of North -- North America.
And they wanted to hire somebody as a staff person. And that's where I came in.
And uh, I applied for the job. It was a part-time job, I loved the idea, it
was community organization work and that had been part of what I had trained in,
01:39:00in graduate school. And um, I got hired, and we set -- set up an office in a
little building, office building off of Southland Drive, and hired a -- a
secretary, and um, we were there for a couple of years, and then we moved over
to Waller Avenue, into the basement of one of the buildings that was owned by
Steve Caller and Irv Rosenstein. And then from there, we moved to Romney Road.
And by then, I was still the -- I was still the um, director.
CRANE: How long were you the director?
SAXE: I started in -- pardon?
CRANE: How long were you the director?
SAXE: Uh, 1981 to 1986. Who were the presidents? Judy Levine and Jack Miller,
and Gloria Katz were the presidents that I worked with. And um, and then we
01:40:00moved over to Romney Road into the -- a basement apartment of one of those
buildings in back of Waller Pharmacy. And um, uh, and then um, and that's --
and I -- we were there, and I -- I must have been there for the better part of,
at least a year. I mean, all these moves came pretty fast. Um, and uh, and
then I stepped down. And so, it was -- it was an exciting time, because we uh,
it was really beginning to run the campaign out of a central -- not just the
idea of an office, but a central body, Earl Levi was the campaign chair when I
began. And uh, his daughter Leslie was working for AIPAC, and so he initiated
uh, a um, a one-day uh, trip to Washington D.C., to um, AIPAC trip, which was
01:41:00very exciting. And uh, subsequently we had at least three or four others. And
um, you know, met with AIPAC, met with your Congress people, met with uh, heard
from various Senators and Congressman speaking, met with AIPAC people, met with
-- uh, visited the Israel embassy. Visited the Pentagon. I mean, it was um,
really very interesting. AIPAC was able -- would basically set up these --
these trips, and it was really very -- very, very good, very educational. And
then, ultimately, really after my time, they uh, organized some missions to
Israel. Uh, which was very -- we also adopted, during -- during my tenure, was
01:42:00um, uh, oh, the um, uh, another block. But a project in Israel to pair American
Jewish communities with Israeli communities, and focus some of the fundraising
on channeling money to these communities, which were basically disadvantaged.
And uh, you know, some of the lower income neighborhoods, the immigrant
neighborhoods that had never quite made it beyond a certain level. And we
paired with Louisville on a -- on a neighborhood in -- in Netanya. Um, so we
did that, I remember visiting the neighborhood, and meeting some of the people,
it was pretty neat. And um, uh, anyway, it was -- it was an exciting time,
because we were growing, you know, the -- we -- the um, Jewish Community Forum
01:43:00really petered out, because speakers became way too expensive for us. What we
used to be able to get people for, you know, $500, maybe $1,000, you know, all
of a sudden, fees were going up to 5,000, and 10,000. We couldn't afford it.
But uh, but we ran camp, you know, Camp Shalom. And um, was important. And the
other big thing that we did was to initiate a Jewish family service, and hire
somebody as a social worker. And Molly Schwab, Rabbi Schwab's daughter, was one
of our first social workers. Um, and that was -- that was important. Because
when -- when we -- when we started to talk about developing a community-wide
Jewish organization, Sue Friedman, who really also deserves a lot of uh,
01:44:00recognition and acknowledgement, um, was really one of the -- also one of the
leaders, and more than that, helping to formulate a direction. And one of the
things she was concerned about was um, aging, people who were aging in the
community, and meeting their needs. And we um, carried out a -- a survey of
every older Jewish adult we could identify in the community. This was in the
early '70s. The interesting thing, not long after the camp was established, and
so this was sort of the next project. One of the interesting things we
discovered at that time was basically, almost every older Jewish adult at that
time was from Lexington and had family here. And did not express any need for
01:45:00any kind of outside help, because their families were here to take care of them.
I mean, you know, look at your family, or look at um, or the Himesons, or -- or
all the Levis or, you know, whoever it was. There was a whole family network
and that's who took care of them. And it really wasn't until really in the
'80s, when I was the director that we began to find older adults who had either
come here to be with their children, for instance who had come to the
university, and then the kids left, the children -- the son or daughter left,
and the older parent was still here, often in a nursing home or needing extra
assistance of some kind. And -- or there were even some notably, some older
people who had come here because the University of Kentucky offered the Donovan
Scholars program, and they saw this as a good place to retire, and all of a
01:46:00sudden, we had older adults who were in need of care, support, whatever it was.
And they didn't have that family network. So that was one element. There also
were the Russians, we started the Russian -- the program of bringing in Russians
at that time. Uh, there were families who needed assistance and support, so
that was another element. Not, you know, not large numbers, but still in all,
they needed -- they needed help. And then, we began to, you know, as -- as we
began to offer these kinds of services, all of a sudden, there were -- not all
of a sudden, but gradually, I should say gradually, there were people who really
needed other kinds of social services, whatever it was. I mean, we went through
a time when I was still working, when there were any number of families who were
looking to adopt, and one of the things that I was doing was helping to find
01:47:00sources for them, resources for them to go to, to, you know, have -- carry out
an adoption. I didn't do that myself, but, you know, at least to help them find
those resources. Uh, and uh, you know, so there were all these things that
became apparent, that either had not been so apparent before, or because the
community was, up until really, IBM and the university began to expand, had
been, you know, so much a localized community. You know, these were families
who came and established businesses, and sometimes uh, you know, it would go on
for several generations or whatever, or even if they spread out into other
things like say, you know, David Aidey, so Lewis had -- his son still had the,
you know, the uh, whatever it was, you know, he did with the wholesale --
01:48:00
CRANE: Dry goods.
SAXE: Um, yeah, dry goods. Thank you. Um, you know, Mike became an attorney,
and his David became a fireman. But, you know, they were still here. And um,
all of a sudden we were getting families that came, like us and -- and all of, a
lot of our closest friends, we banded together because we were here without our
parents, and this is not where we were born and grew up, and -- but we all were
about the same age, we all had kids about the same age, and it was a very
natural bonding, and that was part of really what helped bring about Camp
Shalom. You know, we saw a need for our -- our age group, our generation.
CRANE: Judy, I just recently read that the funding for the Federation has
declined. And I also read that Judy Wartman, who is the present director, is
moving, and there's going to be a search for a new director. Judy will
01:49:00certainly be missed, but um, can you just share your thoughts about why the
funding for the Federation has declined, and what, if any, changes the
Federation board may be looking for in a new director.
SAXE: I'm not totally certain why the funding has declined. I know that in the
early years, certainly a significant part of fundraising was tied to Israel.
And there were crises, the Six Day War, the Yom Kippur War, uh, the uh, bringing
in the Russians, bringing in the Ethiopians, so there was a, you know, an
emergent cause. Um, you know, so I don't know if it's because we don't have
crises and to motivate people, that could be one thing. It -- I don't think
01:50:00it's one -- any one single thing, I think it's much more complex than that. I
think that may be part of it. I think that a lot of the younger generations
don't -- just don't see this as a significant um, uh, target for their -- their
philanthropic giving. I think that um, some of the wealthier, the older
wealthier families who gave significantly, um, are no longer with us. Um, I
think that some of the wealthier families who are with us, um, just don't see
this as a priority. They don't have that attachment. On the other hand, there
01:51:00are some of the wealthier families who do give significantly, but not enough of
them. In a bigger city, um, you know, and I um, have spent a -- I know people
in Boston, for instance, who are very involved with the Fed -- their Federation,
and what goes on in, for my own professional experience, even though it's in the
past, um, you know, you get -- you have people who can afford to give
significantly. And I mean, in the hundreds of thousands, or the millions. And
um, they have to be courted, they have to be developed. Um, I think that some
have been, some have just held themselves -- very consciously, have held
themselves apart. Um, and it's -- it's a real -- it's a real problem. I think
01:52:00also, it's very difficult to get people to volunteer to do some of the hands-on
kinds of work that -- that our -- my parents were doing that we were doing,
that, as the generations have gone on, they've moved away from that. Um, it's
very hard to get people to volunteer to solicit. Um, and when you do, um, you
know, we -- even though we try, for example, here, uh, in Lexington, to reach
out to everybody we possibly can. You know, if you get somebody to commit at 18
or $36, that's wonderful because they feel that they're a part of it, and we
want them to feel that way. But, 18 and $36 is not going to do it. You need
tens of thousands of dollars to really make it go, and you need -- you need a --
01:53:00a core of people. You know, in the -- for a community the size of Lexington,
you need, in the tens of people who do that. In the bigger cities, you have
hundreds. And we don't -- and we don't have one -- the closest we probably have
had is somebody like Steve Kahler, who has that kind of depth of commitment and
feeling about it. And um, he's not around as much anymore, um, his -- his peers
are not necessarily um, participating at the same -- at a similar level. Um,
and, you know, you get retired faculty people like us, and, you know, we -- I
01:54:00would say from what I know, we -- we probably do OK in terms of what we
contribute. But um, you need a lot more -- I don't think um, a lot of our peers
do that as well. And um, and it's -- so it's tough. It's very tough. And as a
result, the money that we give to Israel, and Israel causes, or causes beyond
the local Jewish community, has declined. And, you know, it's kind of a
catch-22, so then it isn't something you go to somebody and say listen, you
know, we're giving to -- in the old days, um, um, uh, what's his name? Wheel.
Not David. Um, Herschel. Herschel Wheel, you know, had um, was a farmer. He
01:55:00-- he raised sheep. He sold -- he was a significant purveyor of wholesale lamb
meat, right? And when -- and when they had this old UJA committee, one of the
things they gave to was the Jewish Farmers of America. Because that's what
Herschel wanted, you know? Well, he participated and he was very generous, but
by golly, some of that money went to the Jewish Farmers of America -- or it was
Jewish Future Farmers, I don't -- you know, but it was that kind of a thing.
And we don't -- we don't raise enough money to do that kind of thing, and some
of the -- and I don't, I'm not sure that we have people in the community who
would up their participation or become more involved if -- if we did. I don't
01:56:00know if they have that sense of, you know, what's beyond -- beyond Lexington.
CRANE: Interesting. OK Judy. Um, you've seen a lot in Lexington, you've been
really active in several organizations, in the synagogue, in the Havurah and
Hadassah, and uh, the Federation, and if you could just -- leadership roles that
various people have had, if you could somehow, sum up how -- what you see as the
changes that you've witnessed in Lexington, Jewish community, over the years.
Has it changed?
SAXE: Oh yeah.
01:57:00
CRANE: And what do you see as the most significant?
SAXE: Um, OK. So, when we came it was a very small, fairly inbred Jewish
community, but very, very close. I've talked about this, you know, very close,
I felt very warm and supportive. Um, we've grown, so that um, none of us really
know everybody in the Jewish community anymore, even -- even if I probably never
knew everybody, I certainly felt as if I knew almost everybody. And um, uh, so
we're -- we're bigger, we're not huge, we're still a small Jewish community, but
um, I think being bigger, that it's a little more diffuse, because I think that
even with the Federation, even with an organization like Hadassah, or even B'nai
Brith, which struggles to, you know, keep going and really also reaches out
01:58:00beyond the congregational boundaries. It's very -- it's -- it's a challenge to
reach out and connect with all these people. Um, so I think that's a change. I
think um, you know, that -- and on the other hand, there are ways in which we're
more sophisticated. Um, you know, as -- as with being able to offer
professional Jewish social service uh, resources. Um, we um, I think there's
still -- there's still a strong thread of -- of support, mutual support. Um,
you know, where do we -- where do I see it now? I see it sadly, when I go to
funerals. And you, you know, you see -- see that cutting across lines that
01:59:00people really care enough that they reach out. And it's not only funerals, but
it's the care and support for the -- for the family members that are left
behind. And I see it on, to a certain extent, with some of our older community
members who um, you know, are in need of support, supportive services. And the
fact that it's not simply turned over to a social worker, but that there are
volunteers in the community who still feel that they want to reach out and do
something in that way, I think it's um, just as a general comment, not even so
much about Lexington. Um, but true heroes, well people get a lot more
satisfaction out of being able to do something hands-on. Now they may be very
selective about what they're -- what they're going to do, but that's very
02:00:00meaningful. So, you know, I -- as I think about it, for example, we -- which is
something that has changed, and I think for the better, you know, that
publicizing to the community that we go to help stock um, the shelves at -- at
God's Pantry, that um, the temple uh, provides a lot of support to uh, one of
the local, you know, nearby elementary schools, as does the synagogue, doing the
backpack -- backpacking things. So, um, I think we are trying, as a Jewish
community to um, you know, while -- while we retain our Jewish identity, to
really also be a part of the community at large. It brings challenges. One, I
was interviewed, what is it now, about 20, 25 years ago. And the question was,
do you think it's easier to be Jewish now than it was 50 years ago? Well, you
02:01:00know, that was, we're talking, back in the '20s, '30s, '40s, 50 years ago. And
there was a lot of anti-Semitism visible, expressed anti-Semitism in this
country. And certainly in Europe, and um, so, you know, people said it -- the
saying was in Yiddish, "It's hard to be a Jew," because you were constantly
afraid that you were going to be attacked in some way, and you certainly, you
know, were -- were limited in what you could do professionally because there
were laws, or quotas, so that you couldn't just apply to any university or go to
any school. In some ways, and my -- my reaction at that time was, I think it's
harder today, because you really have to work harder to retain your Jewish
identity, because there aren't the restrictions on your movement, on your choice
02:02:00of professions, on your choice of a mate, on your whatever it is, on how you
behave. You can do -- do whatever you want. So I -- to get back to the
Federation, I think it's a struggle for the Federation as well, in a sense, an
institutional struggle, to create and maintain that identity as a central
address for the Jewish community, and in a positive way that will help it to not
only continue to exist, but to grow and to develop and to evolve as the needs --
as the needs evolve. Did I make sense? (laughter)
CRANE: Yes. Looking back, what if anything would you change about your
relationship with Judaism, if there's anything?
SAXE: Hmm.
CRANE: Would you do anything differently?
02:03:00
SAXE: I've said this a lot in recent years, I probably would have become a
rabbi. (laughter)
CRANE: Wow.
SAXE: I -- you know, when I -- when I graduated from college, basically women
-- you know, not every woman, obviously, but, you know, the most common thing
for women to do, you became a nurse or a teacher, or a social worker. Um, you
know, it wasn't as common for women to be working outside the home, it was
really sort of at the beginning of that. I remember a classmate of mine, and --
at um, Brandeis who was a really good mathematician, and she was going into some
of the early um, developing work with computers about which I knew absolutely
nothing. But, uh, you know, or -- or you might go into some sort of an
academic, maybe higher level academic role. But the seminaries weren't taking
women in those days. It was only after we were here in Lexington, I remember
02:04:00when Sally Prizand -- Prizand, graduated from Hebrew Union College up in
Cincinnati, and it was such a big deal. And then, the struggle until the Jewish
Theological Seminary, which is Conservative, began to accept women. Um, and I
don't know, a few years ago, I thought if things had been different then, I very
probably would have applied to a rabbinical school. And because it really
combines all these things that I like, working with people, um, within a Jewish
context. Um, educating, not -- not so much the structured schoolroom kind of
thing, but, you know, in a broader sense. So, I guess that -- that would be a change.
CRANE: Well Judy, it has been wonderful chatting with you. And before we end
02:05:00this interview, is there anything else that you can think of that you would like
to share that I've not asked you about, that you think would be important for us
to know?
SAXE: Oh gosh. (laughter) This has been a -- a really, I've enjoyed this,
because it's been very thought provoking.
CRANE: Me too.
SAXE: Um, no I really --
CRANE: Think about --
SAXE: -- at this point, I guess -- I guess the only other thing I would say is
that, um, you know, we came here by chance, and it has turned out to be a very
good choice. And uh, we never expected to be here more than three or four
years, you know, and here we are 50 -- 53 years later. And um, it's -- it's
been a good, good place to grow and mature, and to live.
02:06:00
CRANE: Thank you. Those of us that were already here were delighted you came.
SAXE: (laughter).
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